by Judith McFarland | Oct 27, 2014 | How Counseling Works, Thoughts on relationships
Many people hesitate to get needed help because they feel that getting counseling/psychotherapy means they are crazy, and they feel ashamed. Needing help with relationships or mood is no more shameful than needing medical help for other issues!
by Judith McFarland | Sep 21, 2014 | Grief and Loss, Thoughts on relationships
We all go through life transitions. If we live long enough, we go through many. Some are positive, some are not. Some people go through the adaptions required by change with relative ease. Some struggle with all change. All people struggle with some kinds of change....
by Judith McFarland | Sep 7, 2014 | Couples Communication, Thoughts on relationships
Damage has been done. Do you know how to repair? Read on.
by Judith McFarland | Aug 24, 2014 | Relationship Improvement
Is your important relationship a partnership or is it “All About” one person? What is the difference? Read more.
by Judith McFarland | Aug 12, 2014 | Couples Communication, Relationship Improvement, Thoughts on relationships
Our modern culture sets marriage up for failure by creating unrealistic expectations. What are your expectations? How do you handle it if you are disappointed?
by Judith McFarland | Jul 27, 2014 | Couples Counseling, How Counseling Works
Often, people don’t begin couples therapy because they don’t get how it works. Here is an overview.
by Judith McFarland | Jul 14, 2014 | Couples Communication
In your relationship with your partner, it is critical to the health and well being of both people that partners speak with respect, politeness, and yes, love. Even when people are arguing and times are tough, learning how to choose safe, respectful, loving and effective ways to communicate is critical.
by Judith McFarland | Jun 28, 2014 | Couples Communication, Relationship Improvement, Thoughts on relationships
When you are unhappy about something your special person is doing or saying, do you speak out? Many people don’t. It isn’t just that they wait until the right time, or pick their battles. They don’t say anything. Sometimes they steam in silence,...
by Judith McFarland | Jun 14, 2014 | Relationship Improvement, Thoughts on relationships
If you have arrived at a time in your relationship when you accept that you need to change, are you ready to change because that’s what required for you in order to work on personal integrity?
by Judith McFarland | May 26, 2014 | Couples Counseling, Relationship Improvement, Thoughts on relationships
Lots of people begin counseling because they want change, but change is hard. How does it happen? Is change what you want?
by Judith McFarland | May 4, 2014 | Couples Communication, Couples Counseling, Thoughts on relationships
Sometimes one person is reluctant to enter couples therapy because they aren’t sure they will remain in the relationship but they also aren’t sure they want to break up. Therapy can help move a couple out of that “stuck” place.
by Judith McFarland | Mar 18, 2014 | Couples Communication, Relationship Improvement, Thoughts on relationships
Better communication will improve your marriage. Here’s an important tip!
by Judith McFarland | Mar 5, 2014 | Couples Communication, Couples Counseling, How Counseling Works, Relationship Improvement, Thoughts on relationships
Counseling is a significant investment. Learn how to make the best use of it!
by Judith McFarland | Feb 19, 2014 | Family Issues, Parenting, Thoughts on relationships
Your adult children are leaving the parental nest. Here are tips for staying connected from a distance!
by Judith McFarland | Feb 4, 2014 | Parenting, Thoughts on relationships
How do you let go of your adult children more gracefully? Painful? Yes. Agonizing? Doesn’t have to be!
by Judith McFarland | Jan 19, 2014 | Grief and Loss, Thoughts on relationships, Understanding and Decreasing Depression
Resilience is a desirable characteristic. The more resilient you are, the better you will handle life’s inevitable challenges.
by Judith McFarland | Jan 6, 2014 | Couples Counseling, Thoughts on relationships
The average couple waits far too long to seek help. Delay doesn’t mean failure; it does mean it will take longer and be harder to create change!
by Judith McFarland | Nov 29, 2013 | Thoughts on relationships
It’s not a myth that the holidays generate feelings of loneliness and sadness for many people. If your important relationships are intact and doing well, that’s great. But what if they aren’t?
by Judith McFarland | Nov 10, 2013 | Thoughts on relationships
Is drinking a problem in your important relationship? Problem drinking is not necessarily an addiction and not all problem drinkers are alcoholics. Yet their drinking may be a significant factor in a relationship in trouble.
by Judith McFarland | Oct 27, 2013 | Thoughts on relationships
Depression can be sufficiently severe and long standing to be diagnosed as a disorder and to require professional treatment. Left untreated, the symptoms of depression adversely affect a person’s spouse or partner, family, friends, work life, and health.