OK, So The Honeymoon Is Over. Now What?
When the honeymoon is over, many couples part ways with varying degrees of loss. They may just be deciding to leave rather than learn how to stay! If this is a relationship worth having, isn’t it worth fighting for?
Have You Considered Using A Dating Coach?
About 3 years ago I worked with a couple whose marriage was coming apart for a variety of reasons. They wanted to separate gracefully and they wanted to remain friends. Following their separation and divorce, one partner immediately began dating and found a new...
Adoption; Are There Differences in Parenting an Adopted Child?
Yes. There are some things that are different, and many, many things that are the same. You are parenting a child, and all children need certain kinds of care, whether he or she is yours through adoption or birth. The following is a very brief description of some...
Infidelity: Should You Seek Counseling?
The discovery of cheating creates a whirlwind of emotions; anger, betrayal, confusion and fear are just a few. Don’t throw your relationship away without making the effort to save it; get quality couples counseling from a professional experienced in helping people deal.
The Number 1 Job, The Highest Priority For Couples
The number one priority job in a couples relationship is to make your partner feel loved. If you know how to do that, I predict that your relationship will be ever more successful.
Checked Out? Why You Need To Check In.
If you want good relationships, you must be checked in. Checking in means giving your important person the right message.
Relationship Repair: A How-To Guide
Damage has been done. Do you know how to repair? Read on.
Speaking To Your Partner In A Loving Way
In your relationship with your partner, it is critical to the health and well being of both people that partners speak with respect, politeness, and yes, love. Even when people are arguing and times are tough, learning how to choose safe, respectful, loving and effective ways to communicate is critical.
Confrontation; Avoid or Engage
When you are unhappy about something your special person is doing or saying, do you speak out? Many people don’t. It isn’t just that they wait until the right time, or pick their battles. They don’t say anything. Sometimes they steam in silence,...
Communication; Notes From a Marriage Counselor
Better communication will improve your marriage. Here’s an important tip!
Couples Counseling – Make The Most of It
Counseling is a significant investment. Learn how to make the best use of it!
Parenting Adult Children; Staying Connected
Your adult children are leaving the parental nest. Here are tips for staying connected from a distance!
Managing The New Reality; The impact of 24/7 Wired Communication on Relationships
Boundaries between important relationships and work/school life are increasingly blurred by the ready availability of various kinds of technology. It can be useful and it can be distracting and intrusive. How are the significant others in your life affected by your use of technology? How are you affected by their use of tablets, smart phones, laptops, etc?
Making Choices In Your Relationship; For You, For Your Significant Other, or For The Relationship?
Every day, from waking to sleeping, we all make many choices. When you choose, will it be for you, for your significant other, or for the relationship?
Couple’s Therapy – What It Can Do For You
Entering couple’s therapy can be scary. What should you expect? While every therapist is different, this summary of my attitudes and beliefs about how and why couple’s therapy works might be helpful.
Dating; When Does a Relationship Really Become a Relationship?
How can you know if you are REALLY in a relationship? It’s easier than you think!
Seeking Counseling To Help Cope With Infidelity? Here’s What You Can Expect.
Counseling can be a life raft when a relationship is sinking under the weight of cheating.
Relationship Recovery and Online Dating in Silicon Valley
People in Santa Rosa are exceptionally busy. How can we best use online dating while avoiding heartbreak and rejection, and ultimately find a great romantic relationship?
