The number one priority job in a couples relationship is to make your partner feel loved. If you know how to do that, I predict that your relationship will be ever more successful.
If you want good relationships, you must be checked in. Checking in means giving your important person the right message.
Every choice has consequences in life. When you choose, do you consider whether your choice protects your important relationship?
Our modern culture sets marriage up for failure by creating unrealistic expectations. What are your expectations? How do you handle it if you are disappointed?
Better communication will improve your marriage. Here’s an important tip!
Counseling is a significant investment. Learn how to make the best use of it!
Is drinking a problem in your important relationship? Problem drinking is not necessarily an addiction and not all problem drinkers are alcoholics. Yet their drinking may be a significant factor in a relationship in trouble.
Boundaries between important relationships and work/school life are increasingly blurred by the ready availability of various kinds of technology. It can be useful and it can be distracting and intrusive. How are the significant others in your life affected by your use of technology? How are you affected by their use of tablets, smart phones, laptops, etc?
Entering couple’s therapy can be scary. What should you expect? While every therapist is different, this summary of my attitudes and beliefs about how and why couple’s therapy works might be helpful.
How can you know if you are REALLY in a relationship? It’s easier than you think!
Counseling can be a life raft when a relationship is sinking under the weight of cheating.
Santa Rosa couples seeking counseling most often need and want the help I provide to improve communication skills.
Dealing with infidelity is difficult. It’s important to know how to deal with such a situation.